There are many ways to please a date. Of course, it depends on the kind of date you are on and it also depends on the person that you’re dating. If you’re on a MILF date, you have to understand that it’s all about your physical performance. That’s the core part of the date. However, eventually it would start evolving away from that. It’s very easy for many younger guys to think that it’s just about great sex, but unfortunately a lot of younger guys actually have a warped definition of what a great sex is. To them, great sex is just finding a tight hole, banging it and ejaculating.
It’s relatively rare to find a younger guy who defines great sex as getting his partner to orgasm several times first before he enjoys himself. It’s all about me. That is how most younger guys think. Unfortunately, that makes them lousy lovers. If you want to be a truly decent lover you need to seek the pleasure of your partner first. In other words, make her come first. You’re not going to be able to achieve this if there is no high level of emotional intensity. Don’t get me wrong. Emotional intensity has nothing to do with puppies, and butterflies and lollipops and all that emotional sentimentality that you would get from a Hallmark card or a soap opera. I’m not talking about that.
Emotional intensity means that your woman is actually coming. Her emotional faculty and her mental processes are just so glued to the high level of physical arousal that she’s enjoying. This is crucial because most guys don’t really pay attention to this. They don’t really care about their partner they might as well actually just masturbate in the hall. This really is too bad because if you want to become a truly decent lover, you need to focus on creating situations where your partner would orgasm at a very high level of emotional intensity. If you think this is the highest level, you are wrong. There is a higher level than this. There is a classic movie from the 90s called When Harry Met Sally. There’s a classic scene where Sally played by Meg Ryan faked an orgasm. A lot of guys think that that was an awesome scene because, guess what, a lot of them get faked out by their partners.
It really all boils down to paying attention to what a woman does instead of what she says. She can say OMG and Oh shit all she wants, but she’s just faking you out. Pay attention to her toes. Are they curling up? Pay attention to her muscles. Are they tensing up? Pay attention to her breathing patterns. Pay attention to her muscles. Are they tensing up all over? Actions never lie. Words do. There is a big of distinction here. However, the highest level of sex is when your woman actually shut up which is a state where she is almost comatose. This happens at the highest level of orgasm, usually after the fourth orgasm, because she is actually opening a gateway to the higher level of consciousness. I don’t mean to get all spiritual with you but there is a reason why a lot of spiritual and philosophical disciplines from all four corners of the world always involve some sexual element.
The truly highest forms of orgasm are actually gateways to higher levels of being. That’s the kind of sex that you should be aiming for because, not only do you please your partner, but you end up opening up a gateway where you yourself can achieve a higher level of awareness, consciousness and sense of meaning. Now put these lessons into play, register for free and find a sexy amateur milf yourself over at LocalMilf.net
