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You can say I’m a very skeptical guy. I’m the type of dude that if you burn me once, shame on you. If you burn me twice, shame on me. I really don’t like looking like a fool, not in front of anybody and definitely not in front of myself. I guess you could call me a proud person. I definitely have my standards. I’d stick to my principles. There’ve been many times where I have lost quite a bit of money just because I stuck to my principles. That’s the kind of guy I am. Read More

There are many ways to please a date. Of course, it depends on the kind of date you are on and it also depends on the person that you’re dating. If you’re on a MILF date, you have to understand that it’s all about your physical performance. That’s the core part of the date. However, eventually it would start evolving away from that. It’s very easy for many younger guys to think that it’s just about great sex, but unfortunately a lot of younger guys actually have a warped definition of what a great sex is. To them, great sex is just finding a tight hole, banging it and ejaculating.

 

It’s relatively rare to find a younger guy who defines great sex as getting his partner to orgasm several times first before he enjoys himself. It’s all about me. That is how most younger guys think. Unfortunately, that makes them lousy lovers. If you want to be a truly decent lover you need to seek the pleasure of your partner first. In other words, make her come first. You’re not going to be able to achieve this if there is no high level of emotional intensity. Don’t get me wrong. Emotional intensity has nothing to do with puppies, and butterflies and lollipops and all that emotional sentimentality that you would get from a Hallmark card or a soap opera. I’m not talking about that.

 

Emotional intensity means that your woman is actually coming. Her emotional faculty and her mental processes are just so glued to the high level of physical arousal that she’s enjoying. This is crucial because most guys don’t really pay attention to this. They don’t really care about their partner they might as well actually just masturbate in the hall. This really is too bad because if you want to become a truly decent lover, you need to focus on creating situations where your partner would orgasm at a very high level of emotional intensity. If you think this is the highest level, you are wrong. There is a higher level than this. There is a classic movie from the 90s called When Harry Met Sally. There’s a classic scene where Sally played by Meg Ryan faked an orgasm. A lot of guys think that that was an awesome scene because, guess what, a lot of them get faked out by their partners.

 

It really all boils down to paying attention to what a woman does instead of what she says. She can say OMG and Oh shit all she wants, but she’s just faking you out. Pay attention to her toes. Are they curling up? Pay attention to her muscles. Are they tensing up? Pay attention to her breathing patterns. Pay attention to her muscles. Are they tensing up all over? Actions never lie. Words do. There is a big of distinction here. However, the highest level of sex is when your woman actually shut up which is a state where she is almost comatose. This happens at the highest level of orgasm, usually after the fourth orgasm, because she is actually opening a gateway to the higher level of consciousness. I don’t mean to get all spiritual with you but there is a reason why a lot of spiritual and philosophical disciplines from all four corners of the world always involve some sexual element.

 

The truly highest forms of orgasm are actually gateways to higher levels of being. That’s the kind of sex that you should be aiming for because, not only do you please your partner, but you end up opening up a gateway where you yourself can achieve a higher level of awareness, consciousness and sense of meaning. Now put these lessons into play, register for free and find a sexy amateur milf yourself over at LocalMilf.net

The interesting thing about online and adult dating is that it really is a numbers game. If you’re thinking that you only need to have the right profile and the right chicks will flock to you, you have another thing coming. In fact, you’re going to be very disappointed. The reality is that it doesn’t matter how good-looking you are or how much money you have in the bank. You have to work.

 

Of course, working to get noticed by chicks online is so much better than doing things offline. In the offline world, you have to go to a bar or to a singles’ club or to dance clubs. You have to get set up, and you have to go through all sorts of bullshits and hoops. Not online. In an online dating site, you just need to type the right search parameters in a search engine within the adult dating site and you’re pretty much good to go. Of course, this doesn’t mean it’s easy.

 

The searching part is easier, but the hooking up part is not guaranteed. I need to keep these two things separate in your mind. These are two totally different things. This is where the numbers game comes in. If you want to hook up with one woman, this means that you have to filter maybe 100, or if you’re unlucky, 200 women.

 

The sad reality is that if you sent a message to just one chick, chances are very high that she won’t message you back. For some reason or other, she won’t respond. Maybe she found sex online already. Maybe she just doesn’t have the time. Maybe she’s just not that into you. Whatever the case may be, she’s not going to message back. This is why you have to hedge your bets by sending out a lot of notices. Again, for you to get one, you have to maybe hit 20 or even 100. I have to emphasize this because this is exactly what happened to me.

 

In the beginning, I joined this adult date website and I thought I was hot shit. You know, I got an advanced degree, I’m making over $120,000 a year, I live in the nicest part of San Francisco, I drive a Mercedes and I think my shit’s going on. In fact, I thought so highly of myself that I thought my shit didn’t stink. Well, boy, was I brought down to Earth very quickly. I went to adultdate.org, picked the best-looking chick and I sent her an email. Then I waited, and waited, and waited.

 

It took me several weeks to get the lesson. That’s not how you play the game. You have to set aside your pride and you have to run after the chicks online. The great thing about online dating is that people don’t see you running after them. People don’t see you getting all desperate and sweaty. Basically, there’s still a lot of dignity left intact when you do online dating searches. Compare this when doing things offline. It’s too easy to look like a fool. Believe me, I’ve done it and it’s not pretty.

 

So, I changed my game plan. Instead of looking for the best-looking chick who probably is being targeted by thousands of other dudes, I focused on women that I still physically prefer and also focused on volume. I did this by doing two things. First, I broadened my location search.

 

The online datingsite that I joined uses a location search system, this is the adult dating site in question by the way. What it means is if you live in one part of San Francisco, you can choose to search within that particular district or you can search into a broader area like the whole Bay area or the west bay or east bay near Oakland. So, I broadened the geographic search and the second thing that I did is I looked at recent activity. This is a time-saver for me because I experimented a little bit previously and I was just not doing well at all.

 

The reason why I was failing is because I looked at profiles that have not been active for a long, long time. If these chicks haven’t been logging in, what are the chances of them seeing my message and hooking up with me? That’s right, exactly zero. So, I paired these two parameters together and without relaxing my standard of beauty, I did another search. This produced about 300 results and I’m happy to report that I’ve banged about 5 of those women. Sure, you might think that 60:1 odds are pretty lousy, but hey, I’m telling you right now if you are in a dance club or a singles’ bar and you’re trying to hook up, a 60:1 ratio is simply not going to happen.

 

So anyway, I met up with this chick, Audrey, and she brought her friend, Lilian, with her. I thought it was just one of those things that chicks do when they’re nervous on a date. They don’t really know what to expect so they bring a third party just to make sure that things are on the up and up and no bullshit happens. Well, it turns out that these two chicks are bisexual lovers. They live together and they’ve been a couple for a long time. It also turned out that they like having threesomes.

 

So it was really an awesome experience because I got introduced into the world of threesome by bisexual women. You can’t tell they are by looking at them. One chick is a grade-school teacher and the other chick is a lawyer. They look very professional,down-to-earth, are very good-looking and normal but with highly abnormal sex drive and fetish. It really blew my mind and they’re really good friends to me. We meet from time to time when I’m at that side of San Francisco. It really is great to have a morning coffee, eat some well-prepared crepes. I highly recommend Crepes on Cole, the best crepes as far as I’m concerned in San Francisco, and yes, I also get my dick sucked and I get to fuck a tight hole. It’s a great package. So if you’re ever into adult dating, you might want to do things the way I did and save yourself the heartbreak, disappointment and waste of time.